I’m looking for comments good or bad, I can take it.

I’m drowning in payments here, I won’t go into all the nasty details but there are many of them and they are killing me. I barely have anything left at the end of the month. So here’s what I’ve been thinking about doing. I’m just not sure it’s the correct thing to do. I want to ask my husband to cash in a 401K that he has that hasn’t done anything in years. It has $22,000 in it. I’d also like for him to sell this dump truck that we have that’s worth $5,000 and is never used. I’m thinking, after taxes I might have $20,000 and I could pay off two loans freeing up $600 a month. Is this a good idea or a bad one?

I’ve also been thinking about tapping my husbands big 401K he has a very large sum of money in there. What if we tapped that to pay off all our remaining debt? We would be taking 20% of his 401K. Is this a good idea or a horrible one? Is it even possible to do this?

If we went ahead with both these plans, we could be debt free (I’m guessing) in a month or two. I would also be freeing up over $3,000 a month, $36,000+ a year. We could max out his 401K contributions and put money into savings.

If you are reading this please leave a comment good or bad and don’t tell me what you think I want to hear, tell me what you really think, it will be appreciated more than you know.

Thanks in advance.